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This Makes Me Want to Vomit 🤮

January 30, 2024 by admin

Here’s my truth šŸ’šŸ¼ā€ā™€ļø

Before, during, and after every uplevel, I’m scared you’ll think I’m a ā€œrich bitchā€ 

or the ā€œugh, everything comes super easy to herā€ chick …

while simultaneously worrying you’ll think ā€œThat’s ALL she makes?!ā€ 

or ā€œWho the f*ck does she think she is?!ā€ 

or ā€She’s not even all that good šŸ™„ā€.

BUT, I also know every time I’m more willing to worry and try to control what others think, I’m placing a ceiling on my own growth, my business, my ability to serve and impact, and my bank account.

I also remember, there are likely *already* people thinking these exact things 🤮

Here’s my other truth: Instead of trying to find the path that has everyone love you, the hurdle between most of us and getting big results is learning how to tolerate and stretch our capacity for, ā€œbeing the ā€˜villain’ in someone else’s story," as my friend Julia MF-ing Wells calls it.

SO THAT you can be the hero on your own.

I love most things about my business, my clients, and this work, but I HATE that part.

And, trust me, I have TRIED to figure out the way around this one šŸ’šŸ¼ā€ā™€ļø

Good news?

If people are going to have their judgements and projections, whether or not you create success or make a lot of money — you might as well go after what you want šŸ™ƒ

Besides, think how much energy is wasted trying to make sure everyone likes you, and no one ever judges you or spews their stuff onto you? 

I don’t know about you, but I find it damn near impossible to show up and do my JOB as a coach, CEO, and thought leader when I'm *trying* to be liked. 

And, I'm pretty sure Tay-Tay wouldn't have all her eras, obsessed fans, and baller wealth if she hadn't nailed this one.

It’s ok if it makes you feel a little 🤢, don’t kid yourself, most entrepreneurs I know feel that way as they hold more of the good stuff. 

But your next level, whether that’s making six-figures or multiple millions, isn’t reached by making sure you never feel 🤢

You open yourself up to create and are able to hold and sustain this kind of success when you’re willing to accept and metabolize what comes with it — including the judgements, projections, and dislike from others — that’s out of your control.

And, if you’re ready to step up your thought leadership and visibility to a whole new, vomity-because-it’s-so-good level, and don’t want to walk this path alone, you want me in your corner.

Because my coaching zone of genius is one part knowing how to help you tap into your magic and unique edge, and one part knowing how to support you in unapologetically taking up space online in a strategic way, that gets you way more seen and a whole lot more paid.

Is it your time to show up for reliable and recurring $10k and $20k months and beyond?

I’m currently meeting with potential clients for upcoming openings for coaching intensives and on-going 1:1 spots. Book a free coaching consultation here or take me up on a coaching trial run and ā€œchemistry testā€ by booking a free $100k CEO Mindset & Strategy Session here. 

Wishing you your version of success!

P.S. I’m back in action and READY for you! Know this is your year and time to make reliable and recurring $10k and $20k months?

I’m currently meeting with potential clients for coaching intensives and 1:1 spots opening up in February. 

Book a free coaching consultation here or take me up on a coaching trial run and chemistry test by booking a free $100k CEO Mindset & Strategy Session here. 

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