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The Word That Pisses My Clients Off All. The. Time.

February 3, 2021 by admin

You know how everyone online talks about ‘deciding’?

You know, you have to DECIDE what you want...the power of manifesting and making money comes from your DECISIONS.

Heck, even Tony Robbins talks about the power of DECISION being the catalyst of your destiny.

And, you’re over there flipping the bird at everyone and their f*cking decisions and wondering what in the actual heck that means…

I hear you and hear this from clients all.the.time. 

Let me offer your middle finger this: a decision is clarity and draws a line in the sand.

A decision changes your course and points you in a specific direction, AND it keeps you on track...because you’ve decided ahead of time where you’re going. 

Decisions are being in it to win it and throwing the timelines and deadlines away.

Decisions are not demands, they’re commitments. A commitment that what you want is happening because, yes, you’ve decided, and that means you’re in it *until* you get ‘there’...however long it takes. 

Think about it this way, if you decide to go to the grocery store to buy milk, and there’s a  traffic jam or you have to circle the parking lot a few times, you don’t go home. You do what you need to do to park, get to the store, and buy that milk because you’ve decided ahead of time that’s what you’re doing. 

Just like if you decide to buy a plane ticket to say, California, and there’s a delay at your stop in Atlanta...you don’t get on the next flight home...you grab a coffee, read a book, wait for the next plane to Cali, and get on it because you decided you’re going to California. 

A decision guarantees results because it declares you’re staying in the game *until* you get to your destination, and it asks you to throw everything you’ve got until you get what you’ve decided on.

Decisions work the same way in your business. In fact, here’s my #1 secret for manifesting more of the good stuff….money, clients, the business you want, the dream home, love of your life, and pretty much anything else you’re craving: DECIDE what you want, act like it’s already yours and throw everything at it...AND be so OK with what you have now, not getting what you decided immediately, and committed to staying in the process until it shows up for you. 

Step one 👉🏻 It starts with those decisions. Get clear and decide on what you want. Go all in, show up and act like it’s already yours (really, how would you act if it was already yours?), and throw everything you’ve fucking got at it. 

Decide to stay in this process *until* what you want shows up. 

Step two 👉🏻love on what you already have. LOVE on the here and now.

Do the work to be so damn grateful and accepting with where you’re currently sitting...so much so that you KNOW you’d be OK and grateful if nothing changed (even if you didn’t get more good stuff).

It’s this seemingly contrary combination that allows you to detach, go all-in, and brings the magic and results every time. 

Wishing you your version of success!

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